As the days roll by, more and more long term relationships are failing and the couples are just giving up on each other. While it seems more likely that relationships and marriages are failing more and more, the ones that are working are those that take the time to share.
Guys, it is simple. Women are complex, emotional beings. Ones that are hormonal and totally illogical. They are too much for men to understand so I have come up with a couple rules to live by.
1 - Always say I Love You and mean it. Women need to know they are the most important thing in your life. They need to feel loved and needed.
2 - Touch is one of the most powerful things. Hug them, kiss them and just hold their hand. The feeling of you being there is all that matters. Always kiss them good morning and good night. Don't forget a passionate makeout session may also be the attention she needs.
3 - A woman's story is a long one. Very detailed. Listen to her as if you care about her friends husband's brother that started the fight. Don't let a text or tv show cone between you and her time.
4 - Guy time is guy time. Don't expect women to just invite themselves to hang out with you if you already have plans. They don't want to impose and they don't want to not be invited. Even if she says no, she can't say she wasn't invited. I know the saying, "bros before hoes" but remember that you shouldn't ditch your girl and then wind up qt your best friends house.
5 - Last but not least, communicate and don't hide your feelings. It is important to be on the same page. If something is bothering you, talk about it so it doesnt happen again.
The key to anything working is just that...working at it. It doesn't just do its own thing and everything is fine. Everyone has feelings and deserves a chance to fix things. If they still don't get it right, work harder.. I know that's what your grandparents would say!
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